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Jiro Dreams of Sushi: How an 85-Year-Old Chef Made Me Want to Be a Better Athlete, Writer, & Coach
I’m normally a big budget, guns blazing, blockbuster, Hollywood action guy or a laugh your a$$ off, ridiculousness, Will Ferrell is the greatest of all-time/can’t wait for Anchorman II, dumb comedy guy.
This past weekend, however, I saw an independent documentary film about Jiro Ono, a legendary sushi chef in Japan. The film explored his business, his daily routine, his work as a teacher, and his life, all of which are intertwined into one big devotion to a craft, to never settling for anything less than following your passion.
Before I lose you, don’t let the title mislead you. I’m not writing about this move because of the sushi. I’m writing about it because there are valuable lessons we can all learn from Jiro himself, regardless of our profession or chosen path in life.
DO YOU LOVE WHAT YOU DO?
Optimists might say Jiro is a true living philosopher — not someone who just writes and theorizes from an office, but rather someone who lives what he preaches. At the very least he is a wise old man we should all throw our ears to when he speaks.
This may sound completely melodramatic, but this movie really made me want to change my life, get better at what I do, and devote more time to pursuing my true passion. Maybe it will do the same for you, or maybe it will just make you want to go out and eat some sushi. I hate indefinite proclamations where people assume that what benefited/was good for them will be good for everyone else.
There are no universal answers or lessons, only individual ones.
For me, it taught me about finding what you love in life, pursing it with a passion, sharing that passion with those interested (not everyone will be), achieving success, staying humble, dedicating yourself to a craft, work ethic, commitment in a world full of impatience, and enjoying it all along the way.
Here’s a link to the trailer: JIRO DREAMS OF SUSHI TRAILER
LESSONS FROM A LEGEND
1. Find something that you love in life, and then pursue that with a passion.
Once you decide on your occupation, you must immerse yourself in your work. You have to fall in love with your work. Never complain about your job. You must dedicate your life to mastering your skill. That’s the secret of success and is the key to being regarded honorably. — Jiro
For Jiro, his passion is sushi. He treats sushi making as if it is the most important thing in the world. It’s just sushi right? How ridiculous is that? But to him, sushi IS the most important thing in the world. The title says it all, he would have dreams about sushi, his own ideas and unique twists to it, how to make it better, etc.
The lesson for us is that we can’t deny who we are, what makes us tick, what makes us want to get out of bed in the morning, and somehow contribute to the world. Many of us are unhappy because we’re chasing the wrong goals, or doing what we’re supposed to do instead of what we really want to do. I’ve been there, and quite honestly, fall back into it often.
A tougher way of saying that is who really gives a sh&t what other people think about you or what you decide to pursue in life? People care way too much about their image, and not enough about who they really are. It’s the old Bruce Lee thing — self-image actualization vs. self-actualization. To put on a show is easy, but to honestly express who we are with no ornamentation, that is difficult (but I’d say more rewarding in the end).
For me, it is something as meaningless as this whole physique enhancement, warrior and beach-dude philosophy “thang” (a mixed up bag of crap I know), and specifically the educating/writing side of that game.
I am constantly reading and jotting down notes, thinking of different ways to say things, laughing at stupid jokes that pop into my head because I think you might enjoy them. I am excited to wake up every day when I’m working on one of my articles, videos, or book projects. The more I get involved in the game, the more I realize I can’t do anything else with my life and have a shot at being happy. Hopefully I am good enough to make it.
For you it could be something completely different. Have you found what it is yet? I think the main lesson is that you have to find the path that is right for you, not what anyone else or society says is the right way. You can “follow the Joneses” straight to hell, or you can find your own little paradise, whatever that may be.
Just remember, it’s all meaningless, or it’s all the most important thing in the world, depending on who you are. Don’t judge others or even yourself. Just follow your gut man. My gut right now is telling me that with all this sushi talk, I’m hungry, so lets hurry up and finish this thing.
2. Stay humble, because there is always room for improvement.
Even at my age (85), in my work, I haven’t reached perfection…I’ll continue to climb, trying to reach the top. But no one knows where the top is!
It took me 12 years of working with clients, studying, researching, competing in fitness events, prepping for photo shoots, etc. before I felt I was ready to write my first article and start educating people about fat loss and physique enhancement. I feel like I’m off to a good start. And just when my head started to swell a little bit, and I started to think, “yeah man, I really know my sh*t”, Jiro reminded me I still have a lifetime of learning ahead of me, and a long way to go.
My promise to you is I will continue reading, researching, testing in the real world, refining my philosophies, absorbing what is useful, rejecting what is useless, sharing with you what I’ve learned, getting better at delivering those lessons, and being more efficient in everything I do.
And you? Don’t let your head get too big no matter how successful you are. When you stop learning, you stop growing, and when that happens, the competition catches up. That’s why I feel like whatever you decide to do in life has to be linked to your passion. That’s the only way you will put in the work necessary to be successful.
3. The simpler the better man. These days we overcomplicate everything. That’s why we get nowhere.
In one scene, Jiro and his son talk about how they have no “secrets”. Their success really came from trying to perfect the simple. Consistency of effort in refining and mastering the basics conquers complexity every time.
That’s how I feel about fat loss and physique enhancement. People make it way more complicated than it actually is, or ever needs to be. I guess part of that is the industry’s fault. My industry is full of information overload, scientists battling over minutia or more interested in establishing credibility or supremacy than actually trying to help people, marketers trying to make things seem more complex so they can sell a product, insecure trainers and coaches that feel they need to be “innovative” or “cutting edge” to be relevant, etc.
As an “insider” in the industry, I understand how simple it really is, in theory anyways. The 100% honest truth is that success in fitness comes from hard work at the basics. But people’s laziness, trying to avoid the necessary work at all costs, and searching for magic pills instead, is why the majority continue to be disappointed with their results.
And that makes me think about other industries as well, industries that I am not necessarily a part of. I’ve had the benefit of working with professionals from a variety of fields. You know what I’ve learned? Its all simple man. Life is simple, it is we who over-complicate it. Success in anything comes down to consistent, relentless effort in the basics.
We overcomplicate everything, which intimidates us, and paralyzes us from taking action. Simplify. It’s all easy in theory. The difficult part is putting the hard work into what we already know we should be doing.
In an effort to truly get better in my work (and helping you achieve your goals), I will be trying to simplify everything.
WHAT DOES THAT MEAN FOR THIS BLOG?
I initially started writing this post to let you know what’s going to be happening with this blog the next couple of months, but as always, got a little sidetracked. That’s cool. I don’t overanalyze, I flow like water baby. I hope the detour proved valuable to some.
1. It has become obvious to me that educating people about fat loss, physique development, health enhancement, with a little bit of philosophy and a few sick jokes along the way is my true passion (along with being an athlete, and applying all of that information to myself as well).
I’ve been sidetracked a bit lately, but I plan on re-devoting myself to that passion. Whether it is through this blog, articles, speaking, or the products I’m working on (videos and books), I will be trying to educate those who want to listen as much as possible. So stay tuned for more regular and consistent content.
2. I’m also going to go back through some of my existing content, re-edit, and re-release to make sure it is all up-to-date, and as close to perfect as possible. Methods refine, and I feel I’ve gotten better at writing and educating over time. So I want to make sure all of my content reflects that. A few emails about older articles made me realize some updates are in order.
3. My last article on T-Nation was a hit, largely because people seemed to like the simplicity of the bulletpoint format. I think its because that style of writing largely cuts through the fluff and gets to the heart of the matter. So you might be seeing some of my old (and new articles) using this “bullets” format.
We have a long road ahead of us my friends, thanks for taking the walk with me.
Physique Lighting Tricks
I have a client who is in great shape, but always gets discouraged because he compares himself to professional photos he sees in the fitness and bodybuilding mags.
I don’t think you should compare yourself to anyone anyways, but I definitely don’t think you should compare yourself to professional fitness photos. I went on to explain to my client how we use different tricks to make the body look more ripped in photos, one of those like 8 different tricks being physique-style lighting. I filmed a little demonstration showing just how a switch in the angle of light can make a big visual difference in how the body appears.
Here’s the link to the YouTube video: Nate with his shirt off in different lighting!
Quick Tips
Gung fu is based on simplicity; all techniques are stripped down to their essential purpose without wastage or ornamentation, and everything becomes the straightest, most logical simplicity of common sense. Being wise in gung fu does not mean adding more but being able to remove sophistication and ornamentation and be simply simple — like a sculptor building a statue not by adding, but by hacking away the unessential so that the truth will be revealed unobstructed. True refinement seeks simplicity. — Bruce Lee
If we had 10 minutes, and we knew we would never see you again the rest of our lives, here is what we would tell you about losing body fat and building a beach-ready body. Keep in mind, there are many different effective methods, this is just what we believe to be the most efficient. If you feel strongly otherwise, “it’s no sweat off my sac”, or Kalai’s ??? We wish you the best in your journey either way.
I. NUTRITION GUIDEPOSTS
Dropping fat is more about what you DON’T eat (sugar, transfats, refined foods, etc.) than about what you DO. There is a definite fat loss hierarchy, and food choices stand atop the list. All else — total calories, macronutrient ratios, meal frequency, food distribution — is important, but secondary. The modern diet is full of crap. 90% of the foods available to us aren’t good for health or physique enhancement. Just because we like certain foods doesn’t mean we were meant to eat certain foods, and by continuing to do so we are paying the consequences. Sorry Cupcake Wars, you gotta’ ruthlessly cut the crap (except on cheat days, then all is fair game, hide your small children please). If you can do that, you’ll be well on your way.
OVERVIEW
- Cut out most modern, man-made, refined, processed, and packaged foods.
- Cut out PROCESSED “health” foods — whole grain breads and cereals, fruit juice, refined oils.
- Think “Caveman Nutrition” as the basis of any diet geared towards improving health and/or fitness — if it was around in caveman times, you can eat it. If man made it, don’t eat it.
- For essential nutrients and micronutrients, emphasize real, whole, natural foods — lean animal proteins, vegetables, and whole fruit.
- For energy nutrients, eat whole food fats (for low carb, healthy fat-based diets): nuts, avocado, coconut, OR low fructose, no gluten, natural starch foods (for lower fat, carb-based diets): yams, sweet potatoes, potatoes, rice.
- A lower carbohydrate, Paleo-style Diet is a good template for sedentary, obese, insulin resistant/type II diabetic populations.
- A carb-based, traditional Japanese-style diet is a good template for active strength trainers/anaerobic athletes.
DETAILS
- Cut out concentrated sources of fructose — high fructose corn syrup, sugar, fruit juice, honey, agave nectar, and molasses.
- Cut out trans fats/hydrogenated oil — processed snack foods, margarine.
- Cut out refined vegetable oils.
- Cut out fried foods.
- Cut out refined fats in general — butter, cream, most salad dressings, and oils (even “healthy” oils).
- Cut out gluten — wheat, rye, and barley.
- Cut out sources of lectins — soy, wheat, beans, lentils, corn, and peanuts.
- Cut out sources of phytates — “whole grain” cereals and breads, seeds.
- Cut out refined flour — bread, pasta, and pastries.
- Cut out dairy products — milk, cream, cheese, and yogurt.
- Cut out artificial sweeteners, preservatives, chemical food additives, etc.
- Eat lean animal proteins — fish, poultry, game meats, leaner red meats, and eggs.
- Eat unlimited non-starchy vegetables — spinach, broccoli, mixed greens, lettuce, etc.
- Limit fructose consumption to 1-2 pieces of whole fruit a day — berries, orange, apple, etc.
- Get the majority of your dietary fat as by-product of your lean animal proteins.
- Obese, sedentary, and insulin resistant populations may respond best to low carbohydrate diets, with healthy fats as the primary energy source.
- If your diet calls for “added” fats, emphasize whole food fats in their natural state and that come along with protein and/or fiber — nuts, avocado, coconut. Don’t eat refined oils.
- Strength trainers/anaerobic athletes may respond better to lower fat (fat as by-product of protein sources), moderate-to-higher carbohydrate diets with primary energy coming from starch foods. Unlike the sedentary person, these athletes run through cycles of depleting and replenishing liver/muscle glycogen stores.
- If your diet calls for concentrated sources of carbohydrates, stick to low fructose, low “anti-nutrient” (gluten, phytates, lectins) starches — yams, sweet potatoes, rice.
- If you have high calorie demands, you may need to spread food intake out over 5-6 meals a day.
- But for most people, eating 3 meals a day is the most convenient, realistic, and sustainable approach.
- And, we believe the most functional and sustainable plans are the ones in which the majority of calories and starchy carbs are eaten at night. This is our natural, evolutionary tendency.
- Drink NO calorie beverages only — water, green tea, and black coffee.
- Be realistic. Work your way down the list as best you can, at your own pace.
- For sustainability and sanity, eat a cheat meal of whatever you want once a week for both psychological and physiological benefits.
II. TRAINING GUIDEPOSTS
While there is overlap, training to improve sport performance is DIFFERENT than training to improve physical appearance. This is the core of our philosophy. Most training programs these days are geared towards neural overload (functional training/balance training) or cardiovascular overload (boot camps/cross training). As such, most trainees are improving performance parameters like strength and endurance, but are not changing their physical appearance. In other words, people are getting better at “doing” these activities, but their bodies aren’t changing that much. That’s fine if that is your goal. But if you want to change how you “look”, muscular overload (hypertrophy training) is the scientifically researched, and anecdotally proven, most efficient method to shaping your body and, along with diet, dropping fat. It may not be as cool, but it works. And I don’t know about you, but I am more interested in getting a six-pack than in performing a certain number of convulsion-like pull-ups, doing a one arm – twisting- squat thrust – curl or some other complicated exercise, or improving my crawling skills or sprinting speed. But that’s just me, I’m a vain piece of sH#t.
- If you are severely overweight, sedentary and/or de-conditioned, eat a lower carbohydrate, Paleo-style diet and walk daily. Most people can reach a natural, healthy bodyweight with proper nutrition and walking alone, no gym or formal exercise sessions necessary. Trainers stop cursing our names, you know its true.
- But, you won’t build a beach-ready physique that way. Reaching a healthy weight is different than getting ripped. All else below is for the non-lazy who are willing to work for higher-level physique development.
- Cut out (or at least limit) long distance, low-intensity endurance training (jogging, stairmaster, eliptical). While “traditional cardio” is necessary when trying to improve sport performance, it is totally inefficient and highly overrated for fat loss. Fat loss will be the result of your clean diet and appropriate caloric intake. Building lean muscle through strength training will provide your body with its definition, shape, and tone. You can’t make up for a poor diet with more time in the hamster wheel.
- However, non-formal, outdoor walking is cool. Walking is what we are meant to do evolutionary-wise, and gives us many of the benefits of traditional cardio activity (extra calorie burning, improved cardiovascular functioning, etc.) without the drawbacks (joint wear and tear, increased cortisol, impaired hormone functioning, muscle loss). Take a walk on your off days for general health, or daily during peaking phases.
- Make anaerobic activity — strength training — the foundation of your exercise program.
- Strength train 2 days a week (full body split), or 3-5 days a week (body-part splits).
- Give yourself 2-3 days off from training a week to prevent burnout and to optimize recovery (although outdoor walking is cool).
- Keep workouts to about 30-60 minutes. Intensity (how hard you work) is more important than duration (how long you work).
- With body-part splits, train 1-3 muscle groups per session.
- Frequency — Train each body part once every 5-7 days, allow at least 72 hours between training the same muscle groups.
- Perform 2-4 exercises for large muscle groups, 2-3 exercises for small muscle groups.
- Perform 2-4 sets per exercise.
- Perform 5-15 reps per set most of the time.
- Rest 30-120 seconds per set.
- Focus on basic exercises – lunge and squat movments, dumbbell and barbell rowing and pressing motions, pull-up/dip movements, etc. The human body is a simple lever system and does not need “complicated” or “innovative” exercises to produce results.
- Focus mostly on free weights as your foundation, use machines to supplement.
- Train from a stable base. DON’T train on unstable surfaces (balls, wobble boards, standing on one foot, etc.). Wobble boards build balance, NOT muscle.
- Don’t get sucked into fitness trends, and cool-looking “innovative” stuff you see in the gym or TV. Much of the fitness industry is geared towards what sells, not what works. The basics are the basics for a reason — THEY WORK. This is why they have stood the test of time, while the fluff comes and goes. To put it another way, do you want to be “cutting edge” or do you want to be “cut”?
- Keep the rep tempos (speed at which you lift/move the weights) around 2-0-2-0 (2 seconds up, 2 seconds down) or 3-0-1-0 (3 seconds down, 1 second up). Lower weight under control, lift under control or with a controlled, but forceful contraction, and don’t pause or lockout to rest in between reps. Don’t cheat by swinging or using rebound/momentum. Keep CONSTANT TENSION on the muscle. Sports are explosive, and training for sport performance should reflect accordingly. However, training for development is different, and should be centered around tension and overload.
- So focus on stimulating and overloading the muscle, not just how much weight you lift. This is better for the muscles, better for the joints, and better for overall safety.
- Focus on feeling the muscle work during the set, not just on moving a weight from point A to point B. Think of this as bodybuilding or body shaping as opposed to power lifting. Check your macho (or diva) ego at the door.
- Switch training variables — within the confines of the overall parameters — regularly (exercises, order of exercises, reps, interest rest, etc.) in order to vary the training stimulus and prevent boredom/training plateaus.
III. MOTIVATION GUIDEPOSTS
Changing the world, saving a life, influencing a generation, building a business, or establishing a legacy all require unique skills, incredible courage, and an extraordinary spirit. Getting a six-pack just requires the right knowledge, some daily practical application, and a little bit of discipline. Don’t make it out to be more (or harder) than it truly is.
- Other than a few special circumstances, genetics is not an excuse, so stop whining about them. We have skinny-fat dude and fat chic genetics. Learning, and then applying consistently, makes up for a lot of shortcomings in life. You may not become a world champion, but we believe anyone can improve from where they are at and build a decent physique. In other words, if we can do it, you can do it too.
- Set a short-term goal with a concrete time frame for motivation. This will prevent procrastination, and the ol’ “stopping and starting over” again and again.
- START NOW, there never will be a better time. Something left undone today will remain so for an eternity.
- Tell at least one other person about your goals or intentions so someone else is holding you accountable to their pursuit. Its harder to give up when you know someone else is going to bust your figurative balls if you quit.
- There are no REAL excuses. If something means enough to you RIGHT NOW, at this moment in time, you will find the willpower and the way.
- Getting in shape is a PROCESS you must go through, not a PRODUCT you can buy. There are no shortcuts or magic pills, so stop looking for them. The answers to all of your problems has, and always will, reside in you, not in some outside entity. Accurate knowledge and consistent application is what you need.
- Know your kryptonite, know the situations that throw you off track and pull you further away from your goals. Avoid or reduce your exposure to them. We both have Irish blood, so we stay away from the bars when its time to reach peak shape.
- Overcome negative inertia. The greatest amount of leverage and effort are necessary in the beginning to break bad habits and make tough changes.
- Harness the power of momentum. The hardest part is getting started. Once you get going, it does get easier.
- Make it automatic. We believe success (or failure) all comes down to establishing good (or bad) habits. Discipline is finite. The more healthy training and eating habits become automatic, the less you have to think or struggle with it, and the easier they are to maintain.
It is not how much you have learned, but how much you have absorbed in what you have learned — the best techniques are the simple ones executed right. — Bruce Lee.
That’s pretty much the overview of what we know, believe, and apply every day (except for cheat days), about building a beach-ready physique. Sure, there are more details and individualization with personalized program design, etc., which we’ll cover in articles and posts, but that’s the bulk of it.
Notice, we say it is simple, NOT easy. The “what to do” is simple. As my friend and colleague Shawn always likes to say, “Its all right there on a damn sheet of paper.” Actually doing it is the hard part. We’ve presented what we feel is the ideal scenario, its up to you to find your own comfort level and compromises. Deep down, I think most of us KNOW what we need to be doing.
So why is there so much information overload in the fitness industry, why are there so many bogus fitness scams, why are there so many coaches and trainees alike trying to make the process much more complicated than it is?
- Cutting edge, innovative, new, and complicated all sell well. It distracts us from the tasks at hand that we are all trying to avoid.
- People are lazy, and don’t want to change their negative habits. I am too with most things in life, but being in shape means enough to me to buckle down and do what is necessary.
- People are always looking for the magic pill or an easier way. Again, effective programs are usually simple (in theory), NOT easy (in execution). You can’t make up for hard work with complicated program design.
We hope these quick tips help you see the truth, and help you reach your physique goals. Maybe you’ll want to join us down at Da Beach some day. I’ll be the one prancing around in my Euoropean Man-Thong like an idiot (gosh, I hope you know that is a joke). Take care.
Warrior Guideposts
WARRIOR GUIDEPOSTS
1. Throughout your life advance daily, becoming more skillful than yesterday, more skillful than today. This is never-ending. — Hagakure.
2. Something that is not done at that time and at that place will remain unfinished for a lifetime. At a time when it is difficult to complete matters with the strength of a single man, one will bring it to a conclusion with the strength of two. — Hagakure.
3. It is clear that achieving incredible results requires incredible discipline — knowledge that can be applied in any endeavor. — Samurai Srategies
4. First, you must choose a goal before you can achieve it, and second, the more difficult and dangerous your goals is, the more effort you must put into achieving it. Ambitious goals will help you focus your energies, abilities, and actions to maximum effect. — Samurai Strategies
5. It is spiritless to think that you cannot attain to that which you have seen and heard the masters attain. The masters are men. You are also a man. If you think that you will be inferior in doing something, you will be on that road very soon. — Hagakure. Read the rest of this entry
Favorite Articles by Other Authors
You know, my main goal is to help you achieve your fat loss and physique enhancement goals. I realize to accomplish that task, I have to expose you (exposing myself is just marketing — good or bad is for you to decide) to great content, whether that content was created by me OR someone else. I’m not one of these “my way or the highway” type of guys. If something can add to your understanding/knowledge-base or help you progress in your journey — I’m all for it.
So I figured I’d do a little post on some of my favorite articles written by OTHER authors/coaches. These are pieces that have helped me in my own personal education and physique enhancement journey. Some are relatively new, but for some of the older ones, I have found myself referring back to them again and again (especially when writing my book). Here you go, complete with links: Read the rest of this entry
The Low-Down on Slowing Down for Better Results
I’m sorry that I’ve been MIA for a while. I was going through some transitions – all good ones – and as I worked steadily to get my shiznits back together, just didn’t feel like I had many helpful things to say. I’m happy to say that I’ve worked out the kinks, and I’m back!
It’s been just over 6 months since I competed in my first bikini contest. After returning to “real life”, and real eating (which somehow isn’t what most people consider “real,” even though we rarely eat processed food…but I digress), I’ve been working with Nate on finding a way to maintain a lean body going forward. It’s an ongoing process, but I’ve learned a lot and feel confident about the path I am on.
While the importance of diet has been emphasized over and over on this site, that doesn’t mean that you can “phone it in” with your workouts. If only 20% of your results will come from the time you spend in the gym, you better make that time worth something! One thing that I’ve learned over the past 6 months as I have been working to increase my lean muscle mass (something I’ve not really done in the past) is the importance of taking your time and being patient. This has been discussed ad nauseum in terms of your diet plan (you need to lose weight slowly, no extreme/crash diets, nothing happens overnight, etc), but is equally significant when working out.
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Coach T’s Guest Post — Addition by Subtraction
Since I’ve been away working on the book, it seems as if the writing bug has hit my friend and colleague Coach Toussaint, also known on our YouTube show as Mo-T. Shawn has been kind enough to share some great fitness psychology tips in the guest post below.
I can’t believe this beast is afraid of anything!
As a young boy, I was afraid of the dark. When the lights went out, the shadows of objects in my room would suddenly take the shape of monsters. I would often pull the covers over my head to shield my eyes from the known objects and unknown shadows I created in my mind. Today as a 36 year old man I still have a fear. I am afraid of living my life and not reaching for my dreams. Many of the dreams I’m talking about were born during those nights with the covers pulled over my head. Now I must take this knowledge and dream with my eyes wide open to fulfill the dreams of the boy and be successful in my quest to help motivate others to live their dreams.
As a personal trainer, I deal in the business of helping others achieve their fitness related goals. I have had some success over the years at doing this. I have found that many times it is not just the fancy exercises and complex programs I have created that help people succeed. I believe the primary reason some people succeed at achieving their fitness goals and some do not is directly related to how the person deals with fear, in particular their fear of success.
I know being afraid to succeed sound crazy, so why isn’t everyone successful at whatever they choose? It is safe to say that most people know what they need to do, but why don’t they do it. Is it unwillingness to do the work? Is it a fear of becoming different from those around you? Is it due to distractions? I think it’s a combination of these things and perhaps many others. For me, it is mainly my love for procrastination and laziness. I know that may sound harsh, but it’s true. I have known that I needed to start writing more to grow more and to live my dream of helping others to my fullest potential. For me, it took the experience of someone else telling me to do what I already knew that I should have been doing a long time ago. That’s fine. Sometimes we need a push from a good coach, mentor, parent, friend or even stranger to help guide us toward our path out of fear and into success.
My friend and mentor, Nate Miyaki, once said, “the programs are simple; execution is hard”. I understood this immediately. It goes back to the notion that most people know what they need to do, but doing it is the hard part. The challenge is to take those small steps in your day to day routine that put you on the path to success.
I’m not very good at mathematics, but I love its quantitative nature. For me to over come my fear and add writing to my life again, meant I had to subtract something else to make room. That something else was sitting at the front of the gym talking to my coworkers. Seems ridiculous doesn’t it? It’s funny I still talk to my coworkers, but now I do it with a purpose. That purpose is to extract their ideas and use them toward my writing. I lost nothing and gained double. That’s the idea. I believe that a good number of people don’t execute their plans because they believe they have to give up something up to do it. I believe that focusing on what you can gain by following through with the desires of your true essence will far exceed your perceived loss.
If you know you’ve been needing to lose that weight, don’t focus on the time you’ll lose away from your friends, instead focus on the possibility of making more friends. Focus on how you could be a positive influence on those around you, who may be suffering more than you thought you were. Be a difference maker, not an excuse maker. Excuses are just bits of undigested processed sugar that make their way into our thoughts. They really don’t exist. The only thing that exists is your will to be the best you can be in whatever it is that you choose. Let’s turn on the light and open our eyes to the success that lies ahead.
- Shawn Toussaint
Hungry? You Should Be
If you are trying to change your body composition, hunger is a good thing.
hun·ger
verb /ˈhəNGgər/
(1) Feel or suffer hunger through lack of food
If your goal is to get lean, you will likely be on a dietary plan that restricts the amount of food you eat. This will undoubtedly result in some amount of hunger as your body learns to function with fewer calories than its used to. And whether you eat three moderate sized meals per day or six smaller meals per day, the reality is that with less food, at some point you will be physically HUNGRY.
What do you do when this happens? If you are serious about losing weight, you deal with it. A certain amount of physical hunger is a good thing, because it means you are consuming less than what your body “needs” to maintain its current weight.
I’m not saying you should be famished or hungry to the point of feeling faint, as that would clearly mean you’re not eating enough for basic functioning; however, a little growl of your tummy at night before you go to bed (because dinner was 3 hours ago) can be a friendly reminder that you are doing the right thing. Resist the urge to have a snack before bed…you’re just going to sleep anyway, you don’t need to eat! You’ll have a nice healthy breakfast when you wake up in the morning.
Your diet will likely also restrict the kinds of foods you are allowed to eat, and as such you’re also likely to be “hungry” for things that are not on your diet plan. While most of these pains will be psychological (you don’t need Kettle Chips), some of them may be true physical withdrawals from highly addictive foods, like sugar. What do you do when you want something that you can’t have? Again, if you’re serious about your goal, you deal with it. Many of the things we love to eat – full of fat, sugar, and salt – are precisely what will hold us back from reaching our physique goals. I’m not saying you can never again have chocolate cake, linguine, or whatever it is that you love (shh…don’t tell Nate I said that!); however, during this “lean-up” phase, you must stay the course and not give in to the call (or scream) of these cravings.
How can you manage these nagging physical signals that keep coming at you? With yet another kind of hunger.
hun·ger
verb /ˈhəNGgər/
(2) Have a strong desire or craving for
How strong is your desire to reach your physique goals? In order to succeed, it must be greater than that of both kinds of hunger above (combined!). That’s a pretty tall order.
This is where it truly is mind over matter. This is the hunger you want to feed, and to use to your benefit. Believe in your mental fortitude, and use the motivation that is guiding you to make this change in your life. Are you training for an athletic competition? Do you have a special event coming up? Or are you finally putting you and your health at the top of your list of priorities? Whatever your reason, always keep this in the forefront of your mind, and use it as a shield to deflect – or sword to slay – the temptations when they attack. Who is more worthy of coming out victorious, you or that Oreo cookie? (See Nate, I can write with the Warrior theme!)
Whatever your reason, whatever your motivation, grab onto it and hold tight. Use some of the recommendations on our site to help you through the challenges and temptations you will face (stick with us, there will be more!). In time, the physical hunger will become more manageable, and by learning to harness your mental hunger, your desire for success will fuel your efforts to persevere, and help you achieve your goals.
If we were to meet The Most Interesting Woman in the Universe she might just say, “Stay Hungry, My Friends.”
Content, Content, Content
What’s up my friends?
Well, its been awhile since my last post. But its not because I’ve been sitting on my a$$. I’ve been busy creating a bunch of content, both for this site and for some of the other fitness outlets I am associated with. So here is everything that has been going on:
1. I think 2 new articles went up on T-Nation since we last talked. I’m starting to build an audience over there and it is really helping me get my name out in the industry. Here are the articles:
New Starchy Carb Food Pyramid
5 Ways to Improve Insulin Sensitivity
2. We’ve started and have been filling out the video exercise library. Here it is:
3. Coach Shawn Toussaint and I were guests on Whole Body Talk, a weekly fitness podcast. We talked about natural bodybuilding and the ins and outs of body composition transformations. Here is the link:
Whole Body Talk: Shawn and Nate on Natural Bodybuilding
4. Kalai and I are going to stop running the other site we had started — Fat America Fit America — and just focus on this one. Which means Kalai is joining this site and will be posting up content as well.
5. I’m taking a month off from training after next week to focus on finishing my book. Hopefully by the end of that process I’ll have all of my theories — both science and practical strategies — all in one comprehensive place.
Alright. Until next time, take care. And thanks a lot for the continued support!

