Category Archives: Philosophy
The Dojo is Now Open! What do you think? Ah, we all can dream right?
Most of us KNOW exactly what we need to do to reach our goals, but few of us actually DO IT.
Real-world results are not about plans. They are about EXECUTION. I can talk about nutrition principles forever, but until you have a true purpose for taking action, all educational efforts are meaningless.
Here’s the deal my friends. We all need some extra help and motivational guidance from time to time in order to maximize our potential. But most modern self-help “gurus” dress that up with way too much mysticism and cult-like co-dependency. They’ve become too wrapped up in their own bullsh*t, falsely believing the messenger is more important than the actual message.
They’ll tell you it’s all about drinking magic tea and floating through space in a lotus pose (I can do both by the way, but I’m not one to brag). Or you need a 47-Level Coaching Program where at the end, if you’re one of the lucky few disciples, you might get to touch the tip of the leader’s penis (or vagina), which of course, is the true key to curing all that ails you.
Although it sounds like a fun show man, none of that is really necessary, because believe it or not, the answer is a lot more simple.
The most valuable lesson I’ve learned in 2012, and really over the last 15 years as a coach — I’m older than I look and normally act — has nothing to do with the nuts and bolts of training or diet, or mystical practices. The true key, the secret to your success in physique transformation, strength sports, or any other sport, and maybe even in life, is this:
You just gotta know what you are fighting for.
If you want to start getting things done, you don’t need tricks and rituals. You need straightforward principles and simple strategies, and then you need to take some personal accountability for your own life, and get out there and fight.
For this reason, I’ve opened up The Dojo. I’ve compiled some lessons learned primarily from the works of Bruce Lee and Miyamoto Musashi (but have sprinkled in other philosophers and even fictional characters). Their “Ronin-style” advice of self-education, authenticity, personal accountability, daily action vs. paralysis by analysis, being your true self vs. projecting an image, passion and sincerity in all things, making choices that are right for you instead of trying to fit into social conventions, and simply putting one foot in front of the other in the face of adversity, has helped me out tremendously — in fitness, in business, in relationships, and in life in general.
Now, before I get a bunch of hate mail, I’m not saying that I’m right. I’m just saying what I believe, and sharing what has helped me in both my personal life, and in my career as a coach. You can’t ask for anything more than that. If you are able to find success and peace of mind via a completely different route, I’m cool with that. And actually, I’ll be really happy for you. That sh*t is too important to try and make you fit into some meaningless system or creed.
But for those interested in learning a little bit more about this random, Ronin Philosophy, The Dojo doors are now open. I invite you to, as the pirates say, “Take what you can. Give nothing back (or give everything back, or share it with your friends, or do whatever feels right by you). I will update the lessons regularly.
The foundational lesson?
It is spiritless to think that you cannot attain to that which you have seen and heard the masters attain. The masters are men. You are also a man. If you think that you will be inferior in doing something, you will be on that road very soon…No matter what it is, there is nothing that cannot be done. If one manifests the determination, he can move heaven and earth as he pleases. — Hagakure.
- Because we can all use a little more “beach dude” mentality in our lives…
- Because life is too short to be stressed out all of the time…
- Because a great kahu once said, “leave your trash at the door”…
- Because its been a tough year, but we’ve survived by putting one foot in front of the other and just walking on…
- Speaking of Bruce Lee, he once said, “Don’t add worry to your troubles. Serene, detached from all results, ready to fight or run, to win or lose, and always ready to laugh at all things, take whatever comes. Your child is ill you say, or you cannot pay the rent? Very well, accept these facts and face them. Are they not trouble enough in themselves without adding the aggravation of worry to them?
- He also said, “Worry only creates problems for those around you. One who is possessed by worry not only lacks the poise to solve his own problems, but by his nervousness and irritability creates additional problems for those around him.”
- Because I don’t know man. I believe you only get one life, and you might as well try and enjoy it regardless of your situation.
Here’s the theme song of my life and this blog (OK, that’s a little overly dramatic, but whatever). I just like this song, not just for the melody, but for the message as well. I hope it helps brighten your day a little bit my friends.
I’m normally a big budget, guns blazing, blockbuster, Hollywood action guy or a laugh your a$$ off, ridiculousness, Will Ferrell is the greatest of all-time/can’t wait for Anchorman II, dumb comedy guy.
This past weekend, however, I saw an independent documentary film about Jiro Ono, a legendary sushi chef in Japan. The film explored his business, his daily routine, his work as a teacher, and his life, all of which are intertwined into one big devotion to a craft, to never settling for anything less than following your passion.
Before I lose you, don’t let the title mislead you. I’m not writing about this move because of the sushi. I’m writing about it because there are valuable lessons we can all learn from Jiro himself, regardless of our profession or chosen path in life.
DO YOU LOVE WHAT YOU DO?
Gung fu is based on simplicity; all techniques are stripped down to their essential purpose without wastage or ornamentation, and everything becomes the straightest, most logical simplicity of common sense. Being wise in gung fu does not mean adding more but being able to remove sophistication and ornamentation and be simply simple — like a sculptor building a statue not by adding, but by hacking away the unessential so that the truth will be revealed unobstructed. True refinement seeks simplicity. — Bruce Lee
If we had 10 minutes, and we knew we would never see you again the rest of our lives, here is what we would tell you about losing body fat and building a beach-ready body. Keep in mind, there are many different effective methods, this is just what we believe to be the most efficient. If you feel strongly otherwise, “it’s no sweat off my sac”, or Kalai’s ??? We wish you the best in your journey either way.
I. NUTRITION GUIDEPOSTS
Dropping fat is more about what you DON’T eat than about what you DO. In other words, you will get far better results by cutting the crap (sugar, transfats, refined foods, etc.) than by looking for magic pills or miracle nutrients. Tough love is necessary in these times of laziness.
- Cut out most modern, man-made, refined, processed, and packaged foods. Ditch the muffins to ditch the muffin tops. Eat REAL FOODS.
- Despite marketing campaigns and mainstream fitness myths, cut out processed “health” foods — whole grain breads and cereals, fruit juices and smoothies, flax and other refined oils, yogurt and other dairy products. You can’t beat NATURE’S FOODS.
- Think “CAVEMAN NUTRITION” as the basis of any diet geared towards improving health and slashing fat — if it was around in caveman times, you can eat it. If man made it, don’t eat it. That alone is 90% of what you need to know about nutrition. If you want to walk around with just a leaf covering your goods as a show of appreciation for my wisdom, I’m cool with that.
- Emphasize relatively lean animal proteins and plants as the foundation of your diet.
- For added energy nutrients, eat whole food fats (for low carb, healthy fat-based diets): nuts, avocado, coconut, OR low fructose, no gluten, natural starch foods (for lower fat, carb-based diets): yams, sweet potatoes, potatoes, rice.
- A lower carbohydrate, Paleo-style Diet is a good template for sedentary, obese, insulin resistant/type II diabetic populations. Relatively lean animal proteins, vegetables, whole fruit, and whole food fats.
- A carb-based, traditional Japanese Village-style diet is a good template for active strength trainers/anaerobic athletes, which is basically a Paleo-style Diet with the re-introduction of some rice and root vegetables to refill depleted muscle glycogen reserves. If you drive your car around, you need to fill up the tank, if it sits in the garage, not so much. The Okinawans and Kitavans are other good examples. Google them if you have no idea what I’m talking about.
- Use the “Caveman/Evolutionary” theme not just for food choices, but also for diet structure — meal frequency and food distribution patterns. Human beings evolved on a fasting/feeding cycle. We spent the majority of our existence actively tracking, hunting, and gathering our food during the day. We spent the evening relaxing and feasting on whatever we could catch. Most cultures that don’t obsess over “dieting” naturally do this as well. Its our instinct. You should do the exact same thing if you want to make dropping fat as easy as possible. HUNT AND FEAST my friends.
- Eat lighter while hunting during the day (whether for food in the wild, business deals in the boardroom, butt kicking training sessions in the gym, or a queen/king for your palace makes no difference), and eat the majority of your calories at night while relaxing or socializing in order to refuel, recover, and prepare for the next day’s battles.
- Think of it as two distinct nutritional periods. During the day hours you eat lighter so you remain in a fat burning, energy production mode (hunt mode). During the evening hours you provide your body with the raw ingredients it needs to build/maintain muscle, store energy reserves, recover from the demands of the current day, and prepare your body for the tasks of the next day (feast mode).
- Numerous scientific studies have shown that if you control for food choices and total calories, meal frequency is irrelevant in terms of body composition change, metabolic rate, and the thermic effect of food.
- Since that’s the case, you can build your diet plan around your lifestyle, natural tendencies, career demands, time and food availability, etc. You can make the diet fit your life as opposed to the other way around.
- Eat your main meal — with the majority of your calories and carbs – at dinner. After that, what you do the rest of the day is flexible, and is largely dependent on trial and error and what works best for you. You can eat the fitness-style 4-6 small meals/snacks (although that is completely unnecessary, and impractical for most), you can eat the traditional 3-meals a day (I’d go with a protein-only breakfast, Paleo-style lunch, and Japanese Village-style dinner), or you can intermittent fast (skip breakfast, eat a Paleo-style lunch, and then feast). Me and my clients have followed all three with great success, although these days I’m leaning towards reduced meal frequency for practicality and functionality.
- For sustainability and sanity, eat a cheat meal of whatever you want once a week for both psychological and physiological benefits.
II. MOTIVATION GUIDEPOSTS
Changing the world, saving a life, influencing a generation, building a business, or establishing a legacy all require unique skills, incredible courage, and an extraordinary spirit. Getting a six-pack just requires the right knowledge, some daily practical application, and a little bit of discipline. Don’t make it out to be more (or harder) than it truly is.
- Other than a few special circumstances, genetics is not an excuse, so stop whining about them. We have skinny-fat dude and fat chic genetics. Learning, and then applying consistently, makes up for a lot of shortcomings in life. You may not become a world champion, but we believe anyone can improve from where they are at and build a decent physique. In other words, if we can do it, you can do it too. If you want to give me a virtual hug now, I accept.
- Set a short-term goal with a concrete time frame for motivation. This will prevent procrastination, and the ol’ “stopping and starting over” again and again uselessness.
- START NOW, there never will be a better time. Something left undone today will remain so for an eternity.
- Tell at least one other person about your goals or intentions so someone else is holding you accountable to their pursuit. Its harder to give up when you know someone else is going to bust your figurative balls (or female equivalent ??) if you quit.
- There are no REAL excuses. If something means enough to you RIGHT NOW, at this moment in time, you will find the willpower and the way. If you can’t get going, re-evaluate if its something you really want.
- Getting in shape is a PROCESS you must go through, not a PRODUCT you can buy. There are no shortcuts or magic pills, so stop looking for them. The answers to all of your problems has, and always will, reside in you, not in some outside entity. Accurate knowledge and consistent application is what you need.
- Know your kryptonite, know the situations that throw you off track and pull you further away from your goals. Avoid or reduce your exposure to them. We both have Irish blood, so we stay away from the bars when its time to reach peak shape.
- Overcome negative inertia. The greatest amount of leverage and effort are necessary in the beginning to break bad habits and make tough changes.
- Harness the power of momentum. The hardest part is getting started. Once you get going, it does get easier.
- Make it automatic. We believe success (or failure) all comes down to establishing good (or bad) habits. Discipline is finite. The more healthy training and eating habits become automatic, the less you have to think or struggle with it, and the easier they are to maintain.
It is not how much you have learned, but how much you have absorbed in what you have learned — the best techniques are the simple ones executed right. — Bruce Lee.
We hope these quick tips shatter myths, demystify fat loss nutrition, help you see the truth, and help you reach your physique goals. Maybe you’ll want to join us down at Da Beach some day. I’ll be the one prancing around in my Euoropean Man-Thong like an idiot (gosh, I hope you know that is a joke). Take care.